I’m taking a break from purging the paper from my two-drawer filing cabinet to write. Partly because I am overwhelmed at the task, and the rest of it because, well, I’m overwhelmed at the stack of papers I have already unearthed and need to make a decision about. I really haven’t gone through this file for YEARS (at least 2003) as I am finding some very old documents.
What has been purged/found so far:
• Tax records from the late 1990s (makes sense—they still would have been under the seven year retention law when they I filed them)
• Bank statements from 1998, the year I purchased a condo (now sold)
• Two copies of my birth certificate (one per drawer). I now have three of them all stashed in the same file headed eventually for a safety deposit box
• Lovely letters written to me by friends. Can’t part with them. Need to have them in a file to pick me up when I am feeling down.
• Music for the organ. I play piano, but not really the organ. Resisted the urge to keep and purged it.
• Multiple copies of articles I have written in the past. I am only keeping one copy of each. Should eventually scan.
• Receipt for the first car I bought in 1986—a brand new Hyundai for $7,700.
• Taxes from 1986
• A W-2 from 1985. Ironically, it was from a summer job I had. Last week I reunited with a roommate from that same summer job. We’re having lunch tomorrow. I’m going to show her my W-2. She’s bringing her Polaroids! Boy, just typing that word makes me feel old
• Copies of email love letters sent to me by my husband when we were courting. Need to find a good format to keep them in.
• Teaching materials, with slides, that I have written. Don’t need to keep the slides, but can I part with my writing?
• An old work ID from the 1990s. Cute picture of me. My ID number is my social security number.
• Term papers from my graduate degree.
• Old speeches I have given
• All my research and notes from my thesis (I did throw out the reference guide published by my university on how to put the thesis together)
• Two different lists of books to be read over a lifetime to make one well-read. Does that mean I should choose which life I want to live by which list I select?
• A fat file of articles that a friend gave me years ago. She couldn’t bear to throw them away. I took them. Can’t bear to throw them away. How about if I read them, then purge? The little I have read about the hoarding mentality is that people save and accumulate things because they don’t want to miss out on an opportunity to learn or to not be prepared. What will I miss if I throw away the articles without reading them? How will I know what I missed if I don’t read them? (See why I’m writing and not purging?!)
I still have a half a drawer to go through but there’s an 18-inch high stack at my feet as I type.
I wonder how overwhelmed I would feel if this were a four-drawer file? I’m glad it’s not!